Yes it’s true.
I speak every day to dozens of people from all age groups, working on their own or with companies or organisations. People with a real commitment to high achievement. People who have invested their time and their money to learn new skills, develop their abilities, and set new goals as part of continuous learning and development process. And we hear the same
thing back from them over and over again:
· “I set goals – sometimes ambitious – and made some attempts to take action, and gave up as soon as I found something else interesting enough to do.”
· “I set goals, seriously went after these, and achieved these – in some areas of my life these took days, in some cases months, and in some others years or even a decade to achieve what I had set out to do.”
· “I set goals, took persistent actions, but achieved no results, and gave up.”
If you’ve ever said any of those things to yourself, then you know what I mean.
Many of these people have also attended expensive seminars and workshops on setting goals and know exactly how goals need to be stated.
So how come even when you set clear goals, you fail to accomplish what
you set out to achieve? Or halfway through the journey, you stop taking
action as the goal no longer motivates you?
If success was all about setting positive and precise goals, developing appropriate strategies and taking actions, could not we all attain what we want?
“Having Goals is only part of the story!”
To understand why some goals were achieved and other were not, I got drawn to study the science of neuro-linguistic programming (NLP). This also took me to studying the experiences of other people, some great achievers, and some friends and clients who I coached. One thing I learned from all these is that it is not about what goals you set, but how you set goals determines what you achieve and how quickly you achieve these.
“If you set Goals, you Must also make these MUST for you!”
What do I mean by that?
It involves making a switch in your mind from having a goal of setting up/ achieving something to making it a MUST – convincing yourself that you have no other option except to achieve your goal.
Whatever you achieve in my life is the result of the level of acceptance you set for yourself. You will only ever get what you are prepared to accept, not what you expect. If you set a goal for an annual income of £200,000, and are prepared to take a job for £50,000, well…..that’s what you will get. But if you are so serious about your goal that you will not accept anything below £200,000, well that’s what you will get.
After all…
“What Do We Call Someone Who Settles for Less Than the Target?”
We call them lazy. Daydreamers.
With Little Practice and Discipline, It is Easy to Become a High Achiever
Fortunately, making the shift from being daydreamers to High Achievers is in our hands. We all know that simply setting good goals is not enough to ensure that we achieve these. The primary difference between high achievers and low achievers is “action-orientation.” Men and women who accomplish great things in life are intensely action-oriented. If they have an
idea, they take action on it immediately. The factor that distinguishes those that move to take action consistently from the others who ‘wish to achieve something’ is simple: they make their goal(s) a must, while the rest belong to the category of general population who like, wish, want, hope to succeed. The latter group will work within their comfort zones, and when challenged, will find excuses why something cannot be done. They want to lose weight, but it is not a must. They would love to make more money and wish to take charge of their lives, but they could live without these. They have SOFT goals – Some Other Future Time.
I will show you through my eBook that in our lives, all of us can achieve many things, and whenever we have had great successes, we would have set our goals in such a way that our mind got automatically aligned in the pursuit of our goals. This is the theme of the ebook on Transformational Goals . It will show you:
1. The vast power you have in your mind and how to tap into the all-powerful subconscious mind.
2. A simple technique to keep your motivation going, even when nothing seems to be going according to plan.
3. Six steps in setting goals and making them compelling – making the goals ‘MUST’.
4. How to develop a strategy that takes you towards the outcomes you want.
5. How to enjoy taking action.
6. How to continuously review goals-strategy-action cycle and deal with feedback.
7. How to deal with blockages – limiting values and beliefs – break through the barriers and limitations that have been holding you back from manifesting real wealth and success in your life.
The order your copy, visit our ebook page on this site. The eBook is normally priced £ 12.99. For subscribers of my bog (http://resultsmatter.wordpress.com), you can obtain it free now.
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